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5 Things People Say But Don’t Mean

5 Things People Say But Don’t Mean

Will it kill you to say what you mean?   Why do people feel the need to say what they think others want to hear instead of what they really think? Who said to be likeable you have to pretend to be someone you’re not? […]

It’s Important To You Not Them

It’s Important To You Not Them

What would you do if someone told you they reached the highest level in Mario Kart?   If you’re a gamer, you might be impressed, but if you’re not you’ll be like, “Umh.. okay. Who cares, again?”   Has it ever occurred to you that […]

Is It Good or Is It Just Familiar?

Is It Good or Is It Just Familiar?

Do you know what bad acting is? Bad acting is what they have in Nigerian movies. I’m sorry if that offends anyone, but it’s just the truth.   It should be a crime against humanity for anyone to air those movies anywhere. On top of […]

People Will Disappoint You

People Will Disappoint You

There’s a difference between pessimism and realism. The pessimist says the glass is half empty, while the realist says, there’s water in the glass. I prefer realism. The title of this article is not meant to be pessimistic. It’s meant to be realistic. Not everybody […]

Dealing With The Ghosts Of Your Past Mistakes

Dealing With The Ghosts Of Your Past Mistakes

Like everybody else, I’m haunted by my past and worried about my future. 70% of my memories of the past are of the mistakes I’ve made, ways in which I just failed to meet those standards. Do you remember doing something that is so obviously […]

Hang Out With People You Disagree With

Hang Out With People You Disagree With

As humans, we always seek familiarity, comfort and consistency. This makes sense because familiar things are more likely to be safer, and that’s why we evolved to like them. What we end up doing is surrounding ourselves with what we know, and people who present […]

Hard Work Leads To Failure

Hard Work Leads To Failure

So you’ve sacrificed many sleepless nights for your dream? You’ve sacrificed your relationships, your health, and your comfort? You put everything on the line for this one goal that means the world to you? I’ve got something to tell you: you will fail.   Sometimes. […]

Do It Because It’s The Right Thing To Do

Do It Because It’s The Right Thing To Do

I was reading a question on Quora not too long ago where someone asked, “If women shame men for being short, why shouldn’t men be allowed to shame women for being fat?” I’m sure many of you can immediately spot the absurdity of this question. […]

How To Respond To Tragedies In The World

How To Respond To Tragedies In The World

  Yesterday (Monday, 22 May 2017) there was an explosion at an Ariana Grande concert in Manchester, England. From what they know so far, this was a terrorist attack committed by a suicide bomber. 22 people were killed and at least 59 were injured.   […]

Don’t Let People Mistreat You

Don’t Let People Mistreat You

It’s good to be nice to people. But it’s never good to be so “nice” to people that you allow them to mistreat or disrespect you.   If you, like me, are the type to always say “yes” to everybody, if you’re a people pleaser, […]