Author: Nelu Mbingu

My 14 Reasons to Never Get Married

My 14 Reasons to Never Get Married

I know what some of you are thinking, “It’s 2017 baby! You can be a single independent woman if you wanna be!” You guys are my people. You make me feel much better about considering never getting married.   Then, some of you might be […]

5 Ways You’re Being A Hypocrite – Modern Sins

5 Ways You’re Being A Hypocrite – Modern Sins

So, there’s this funny thing that many of us do: we criticize others without realizing we have the same characteristics we’re criticizing in them but just in a different way. We act like hypocrites all the time.   Not you? You never do that? You […]

4 Ways Bad News Can Make Your Day Better

4 Ways Bad News Can Make Your Day Better

I know what you’re thinking. There’s no way bad news can make anyone’s day better! Just like there’s no way adding olives to your black coffee will make it better.   I thought so too. But as I found out a few days ago, life […]

7 Reasons Why You Need To Cut Your Friend Out Of Your Life

7 Reasons Why You Need To Cut Your Friend Out Of Your Life

Why do girls always go to the bathroom in groups?   I don’t know. I never had a gang of girls that followed me around everywhere.   Yeah, I am that loner. Single Ladies is my anthem.   People are always like, “You’re the average […]

Types of Jealousy

Types of Jealousy

You might know it as the green-eyed monster or better yet, the psycho girlfriend disease.   We’ve all experienced jealousy at some point in our lives. I’m sure you’ve seen the levels of lunacy that jealousy can lead people to. Or maybe you were the […]

Self-Control: Don’t Get Drunk On Useless Hard Work

Self-Control: Don’t Get Drunk On Useless Hard Work

Stop.   No really, stop what you’re doing right now, and ask yourself if it really matters.   What takes up most of your time every day? What are you pouring your sweat into? Does it really matter? Or are you so drunk on the […]

It’s Important To You Not Them

It’s Important To You Not Them

What would you do if someone told you they reached the highest level in Mario Kart?   If you’re a gamer, you might be impressed, but if you’re not you’ll be like, “Umh.. okay. Who cares, again?”   Has it ever occurred to you that […]

Is It Good or Is It Just Familiar?

Is It Good or Is It Just Familiar?

Do you know what bad acting is? Bad acting is what they have in Nigerian movies. I’m sorry if that offends anyone, but it’s just the truth.   It should be a crime against humanity for anyone to air those movies anywhere. On top of […]

People Will Disappoint You

People Will Disappoint You

There’s a difference between pessimism and realism. The pessimist says the glass is half empty, while the realist says, there’s water in the glass. I prefer realism. The title of this article is not meant to be pessimistic. It’s meant to be realistic. Not everybody […]

Dealing With The Ghosts Of Your Past Mistakes

Dealing With The Ghosts Of Your Past Mistakes

Like everybody else, I’m haunted by my past and worried about my future. 70% of my memories of the past are of the mistakes I’ve made, ways in which I just failed to meet those standards. Do you remember doing something that is so obviously […]