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Why Is Integrity So Important?

Why Is Integrity So Important?

¬†Why should you care whether what you do in secret is in line with what you do in front of others? Why is it important¬†to maintain integrity? I mean we should have some freedom to do what we want when no one is watching…   […]

Making It Easier To Persist

Making It Easier To Persist

We all know that persistence is the key to success in any goal. But sometimes it gets difficult to keep doing the things that we know will take us where we want. It gets difficult to persist.   So how can we learn to fight […]

Work Hard But Stay Humble

Work Hard But Stay Humble

We are made to believe that the only thing standing between us and our goals is hard work. We are taught that with the right amount of effort, anyone can achieve anything. That is true for the most part, and it is often motivating. But […]

How To Deal With People Changing

How To Deal With People Changing

We want our surroundings to stay stable and predictable. We want the people in our lives to stay the way we have come to know and love or hate them. But people do change…And it can be confusing and painful to see them change.   […]

Boosting Your Self-Esteem

Boosting Your Self-Esteem

Sometimes when we look into the mirror, we don’t like the person starring back at us. Sometimes we doubt if we are good enough for this world. We find ourselves having low self-esteems.   And we may blame it on the fact that we don’t […]

To Fear Or Not To Fear

To Fear Or Not To Fear

Life is risky. There is never a lack of things to be afraid of. Fear keeps us safe most of the time. We avoid the things we’re afraid of and these are usually dangerous things. But sometimes fear becomes an obstacle. We’re afraid we’ll fail, […]

Let Your Pain Make You Better

Let Your Pain Make You Better

“For pleasure or for pain; Till death do us part.” These seem to be the vows we make when we unwillingly marry life. With a real spouse, you might not actually have to endure the pain. Not with life. Life is guaranteed to be a […]

The Freedom We All Have

The Freedom We All Have

We all have a mental world that we share with no one. We can’t read each other’s thoughts. So that means we are free to lead our thoughts in any direction, to imagine, to draw our own conclusions about things. But how many of us […]

To Help Or Not To Help

To Help Or Not To Help

Why is it that the aid given to some poor African countries only managed to plunge them deeper into poverty? What if I told you the money you gave to charity was only used to grant the charity owner an exotic vacation? The truth is […]

Give People The Benefit Of The Doubt

Give People The Benefit Of The Doubt

What do you do when you suspect someone is lying to you? We like to be able to predict how the people around us will behave. So when someone lies to you, you may want to label them “liar” so you know they can lie […]